![]() ![]() ![]() Drips are going to be much cooler than pools of wax, and don’t retain heat for quite as long. Ask your partner how it feels as you’re going. The farther you drip, the cooler the wax will be when it hits the skin. If it feels too hot, try from farther away. Try this from 6 inches, then again from 12 inches. The wax will be hot for longer, and the pools are ripe for peeling off.īefore dripping the wax on your partner, test the heat of the wax by dripping some on your forearm, away from any hair. Pillar and votive candles allow for larger pools of wax to drip onto the area of focus. This will be important to your experience, as the one holding the glass, and by the person you’re dripping wax on, as the wax may be slightly hotter than their non-glass counterparts. Pillar candles and votive candles are almost the same, except that votive candles are surrounded by glass that retains heat. If anything ever happens, you can always blow out the candle and set it down. It means not having to wait for your candle to pool before you can start. Tapered candles, like the ones you may see displayed as a centerpiece on your dinner table, allow for a steady stream of drips and drops. I have had bottoms complain about oil burning their skin and causing marks, so I generally do not do this. In my experience, I have found that oil gets too hot when wax is dripped on it. This makes the removal of dried wax much easier. Some people like to put a layer of oil between the dripping wax and the bottom’s naked skin. You can also lay down a towel or have your partner lying on leather, hardwood, or tile flooring for something a little different. Old sheets make for a quick and easy cleanup, but there are options below for cleaning if you can’t find any. Neither are particularly good for Wax Play because you can definitely hurt yourself or your partner. If you have a fire extinguisher, that would likely be helpful as well-we are playing with fire after all.Īlways remember that drugs and alcohol can tamper with your brain's receptors, making some people much more averse to pain, and others more pain tolerant. If anything is too hot or painful, you can always use a damp towel to cool the area quickly. Keep a bowl of cold water with a washcloth next to you at all times. This ensures that you’re not pulling out hairs after playtime is over. You can even sensually work this into play by setting a bowl of water aside and lathering up the shaving cream in hand before massaging in the cream and removing the hair for them-especially in hard-to-reach areas like their back, butt cheeks, or the back of the thighs. Next, you’ll want to shave the area you want to drip on yourself or your partner. Other questions to ask your partner before Wax Play: Unless the collective goal is to leave marks, it’s best to avoid beeswax. Beeswax burns at 150ºf to 170ºf and will scar or leave painful marks for days. The difference is like walking around the Sahara desert for a while versus sticking your hand in an oven (which you shouldn’t do because it’s too hot). This is the perfect temperature for the skin to feel the heat, without being overwhelmed. Paraffin and soy wax burn between 110ºf and 130ºf, or 43.3✬ to 54.4✬. There are only two types of wax that should be used on human skin, regardless of “pain tolerance.” Pain tolerance is not temperature tolerance. We’ll talk more about the differences later in this guide. ![]() There are three candle types that I suggest: tapered, pillar, and votive. If you still want to play with a scented candle, you can light one in the room before play, and have it burning while you use unscented candles on the skin. Unless the candle is explicitly made for play (you can find these at play stores or online), these candles are made only for visual and olfactory pleasure. Please, for the sake of yourself and your sub, do not use a scented candle, or a candle with a wide mouth jar.
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